Am just saying. If you are a transgender, I can never know what your feeling inside. However it is physically impossible for a man to feel like a woman. i wanna say its impossible to feel gender. your gender is something you learn about as you grow into it. no human grows up with a feeling that he/she should be something you take what nature gives you and you grow to live with it. The feeling of being inadequate or cheated by nature can only come from you comparing yourself to someone with conditions that you prefer. A dwarf would not feel like he/she was supposed to be taller if he/she was only raised around dwarfs. Its only when the dwarf mixes with tall people and sees himself in a world made for tall people that he wishes he was taller. So the whole wanting to be a woman or man thing to me is just an extreme form of cross dressing and its just a mental state. Am not a person who believes in the existence of right or wrong so I don’t condemn it. I just like to know what IT is. I don’t believe it should be encouraged at primary school level at all cos most parents want their kids following their natural path so why plant backward ideas in them at such an age.
its amazing how the advancements in medicine created three genders. Identifying as a woman and being a woman are completely different. so if the need to be a woman was biological it would never be satisfied. I respect peoples choices as long as it doesn’t affect me or people and things that I love
so i will happily refer to people by their chosen identification however i will never say that you are a woman or man because women are more than dickless men with boobs.
I went to an all boys school and saw a spectrum of the male human species. Among them were very feminine guys who despite their haircut, were extremely feminine. Their mannerisms, vocal tone, appearance and interest sometimes made them very different. This was not in the western world with such modern ideas of transgender. And I know people like this have existed for years. These guys were comfortable in their own skin and accepted that they were different from most guys. They are part of the big reason I’m writing this. These guys were male and didnt feel the need to reclassify themselves and further undergo surgery just to be who they already are. The western media and western teachings right now promote the idea of being uncomfortbale in ypur skin and rejecting who you are until you satisfy certain criteria. It may not be the full scope of what it means to be trangender if you go deep in their community but thats the general message that is being received from them intentional or not. If my friends in boarding school grew up here I doubt they would have the self security to be so comfortable with their differences
My opinion back in the day was that trannies are extreme homosexuals who have gone all out to attract their interest. The emergence of Caitlyn Jenner who is holding the mainstream torch for transgenders made me have to ditch that concept as SHE has still claimed to want girls and actually think about what it means, my experience with them so far and their cultural impact. I’m a “cis gendered male” so my opinion comes with 1 or 2 salt grains